Monday, June 15, 2009

teenager's problem

hello world!!
im posting here to ask for a solution 4 this friend of mine..
u see..
i hav dis one vry good friend..about 4 months ago he met with dis one girl.became vry close to her in that period.they kept texting each other.and in that short time he fell in love with dat girl.

The problem is dat the gurl already hav a bf.both dis gurl n my friend really love each other.
dis is one thing i don't could the gurl fall in love with my friend if she already hav a bf?
weird huh..haha..
eventually the gurl's bf found out about her close relationship with my friend.the gurl had some quarreling with her bf..the gurl then told about dis to my friend which made my friend felt guilty.

Now,my friend is trying to avoid n forget about the gurl.he stopped texting the gurl n evrytime they walked past each other my friend did not even say 'hi' to her.he is really trying to forget about dis gurl.he tried to forget and avoid the gurl drastically.

But by doing all this the gurls close friends started to question about my friend's actions.they feel dat it is to friend is now lost.he just doesn't know what to do now.he asked me for a solution that could really help him.

But i'm not really good at dealing with this kind of problem.problems that involves relationship.
all i know is that this kind of relationship only brings pain and despair.
haha..i just dunnoe what to tell to my friend.

So what do u think??can u help me by giving me some solutions so that i can help my friend.
he's desperate.


  1. i just can't understand
    both of them doing nothing wrong
    they love each other right
    love is not a crime
    matter fact, y he avoiding that girl
    the man should stand up n lead the way
    that girl maybe helpless

    my advice: at least, be a FRIEND
    thats good to have a good communication
    cos avoiding sounds amatuer =]

  2. I 100% agree with aliph! :) ur friend shouldn't avoid her.

  3. there'll be more fish to catch in the future...this goes to both's not wrong to like more than one person AND it's not wrong to feel guilty if you happen to be the third party.
    KMM is only a teeny weeny bit of the world out there... you might think that "this is it..i'm not going to meet somebody as nice as her/him" but trust me, more things are waiting to happen. be mature. AVOIDING would not solve anything. TALKING BAD ABOUT OTHERS would bring more damages rather than solution. this is a lesson in growing up.

  4. Avoid?! why the he... she's already on bad terms with her bf.. once she's confirm your friend would be her new one.. she'll definitely break it off with her bf.. and they can live happily ever after..

    Gosh i'm too specific.. oh well..

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